Win Friends Influence who?
Posted by Brandon Barclay on July 8, 2010Have you ever took a moment to think about the people you are trying to influence? Are they helping to build your mastermind of people. If you are unsure about your mastermind group of people. Just look around you and ask yourself, are you associating with like minded people, in getting the things you want out of life. Are they getting what you want to be getting? Is there room for you and how will you fit in? All of these questions are important because this mastermind group of people will have to be won over and influenced by you as much as they influence you. In business there has to be give and take and what we bring to the table is going to be key…. Think about it, have you ever had a banquet or some big event that you’ve helped put on. Do you remember how one person seemed to be telling everyone what to do but wasn’t doing much themselves. There always has to be a leader. In your case perhaps you felt the leader could have helped out more or even that they were doing more than was expected. Ask yourself, am I a good leader? Even if we are in a role that we are not expected to lead, there are still things we can do to take on a leader type role. Each and every situation is different but it’s important to remember that if you seek than you shall find. If you are looking for something better than you will find it. Like influencing people. If you want to, you can, but it might take a while for you to develop the skills needed to make an impact on those you are trying to win over. Sometimes in our lives those things that we’ve wanted so badly don’t come into our lives until we’ve prepared to receive them. What are you preparing to receive today? A promotion , a new car, a better relationship? Whatever it might be if you keep on keeping on as I’ve said before, there is a really good chance that a new computer, a new car or even something you’ve wanted for so long will be sitting right in front of your eyes before you know it. You won’t know why it’s happening but it will happen. It’s just a matter of desiring it to be so. See the universe works in mysterious ways that you or I can’t explain. If you feel you can explain them all figure out how we can travel billions of light years away and come back to tell about it. In this case, that ability is a mystery. But the universe is devised to provide us with what we need. So if there’s something you feel you really need, ask of it and then go out and seek it. Because if you ask but don’t seek, the chances are fewer that they will come. From personal experience there have been things in my life that have come in without me seeking, rare, but they did. It’s as if they came into my life when I was least expecting them but when they were needed the most. It’s like that in your life too and until you can believe it, there’s littler of a chance that it will be so. Belief is a big part of all this game. It’s like a test we’ve become subject to upon entering this world. Our ability to believe in anything and everything, because until it’s happened to us, it may seem impossible. Never regard anything as so. It can happen to you. It’s all a matter of keeping your beliefs strong and contributing towards something that will help your beliefs and wishes become even stronger. It’s not the end. Don’t give up. Just because something doesn’t work the first time. Keep trying over and over again until your reality becomes one. I’m cheering you on. Go get um. Get the things you need and make this world a better place in the meantime. We all know that if you and I make it so, it to can be.
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