731 Days

Your mind Chi. Where is it. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. What you think you’re worth. Are you not.

Brandon Barclay — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 01:18:48 +0000

When you step into your mind and you think for just a moment. Who am I and why am I doing those things which seem important? The real question then is, are they really that important to begin with. What is the measure of their importance. There has to be a form of reward and that which you are given can only be a determinate of ones placed value on you. Don’t believe everything you hear. If it’s not shown to you then there’s a really good chance your worth might come in second to that of someone elses. It’s not a measure of money, it’s a measure of something else, which when i can put a finger on it, I will tell you what it is. See in life, like in business there are certain secrets that we are not privileged to. It’s just the way things are. What you have to be careful of, is if there is something you want to know, make sure you are ready to receive it. That’s where the mind chi comes in, because there has to be a piece of you that helps you to capture into your life those things which you need. Sometimes they will come to you unexpectedly and you will not know how to decipher the information which you’ve been given. Who are the privileged and who are the under privileged. What is your place in life or in your position? Have you ever asked yourself what makes you more valuable then the people around you. What gives you worth that without your being makes impossible, possible.

Another thing to take into consideration is our given state of economy. The people that control it and your way in. If there is a way. Your only as powerful as the position you hold and the length in which you can hold it. If you take for instance one month you make $500 dollars. Then the next that doubles, and the month after that, that doubles. until you are making something like 15k a month. Just say. Then you’ve come to rely on that money as though it were going to be there for you the next month. Then the next month roles around, the tables turn and you are stuck making nothing. How do you overcome this. What is your place and what at this point is your worth. Not only does this become a question of when but how and if. If the flow of money stops coming in, your mental chi and your cognitive behavioral state of mind then becomes that of stressed. Your existence would start to collapse around you, and you wouldn’t know how to handle the situation. This is why I say, watch your pees and Q’s. You never know when something is going to change. Be ready for the challenge and make sure that you stay mentally strong, because you will beat out the competition if you stick it out.

Not that any of this makes any sense at this point in time. There’s just a flow that has to continue here to break that wall and get into the 10%. More money is not going to make life easier though. The one man that Gets paid 10 million could potentially still envy the man that gets 100 million. Then there’s the bystander that doesn’t get any that says I would take the 10 million. But he to is not in the situation where he didn’t get the 10 million so there’s no way for him to comprehend the feeling. In this case where something like this happens, you have to ask yourself, is money really what makes you happy? If it is, then seek something else in life because once you get it, you will still not be happy. Though if it’s something you’ve wanted for a long time, go for it, but do not forget that you’ve come from without it.

Tags: month, something, good chance, money, tables turn, measure

A quote for the day. or a couple

Brandon Barclay — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 18:38:52 +0000

The safe way to double your money is to fold it over once and put it in your pocket. ~Frank Hubbard

The real measure of your wealth is how much you’d be worth if you lost all your money. ~Author Unknown

Tags: Frank Hubbard, Frank Hubbard The, money, pocket, safe way, way

Win Friends Influence who?

Brandon Barclay — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 16:55:39 +0000

Have you ever took a moment to think about the people you are trying to influence? Are they helping to build your mastermind of people. If you are unsure about your mastermind group of people. Just look around you and ask yourself, are you associating with like minded people, in getting the things you want out of life. Are they getting what you want to be getting? Is there room for you and how will you fit in? All of these questions are important because this mastermind group of people will have to be won over and influenced by you as much as they influence you. In business there has to be give and take and what we bring to the table is going to be key…. Think about it, have you ever had a banquet or some big event that you’ve helped put on. Do you remember how one person seemed to be telling everyone what to do but wasn’t doing much themselves. There always has to be a leader. In your case perhaps you felt the leader could have helped out more or even that they were doing more than was expected. Ask yourself, am I a good leader? Even if we are in a role that we are not expected to lead, there are still things we can do to take on a leader type role. Each and every situation is different but it’s important to remember that if you seek than you shall find. If you are looking for something better than you will find it. Like influencing people. If you want to, you can, but it might take a while for you to develop the skills needed to make an impact on those you are trying to win over. Sometimes in our lives those things that we’ve wanted so badly don’t come into our lives until we’ve prepared to receive them. What are you preparing to receive today? A promotion , a new car, a better relationship? Whatever it might be if you keep on keeping on as I’ve said before, there is a really good chance that a new computer, a new car or even something you’ve wanted for so long will be sitting right in front of your eyes before you know it. You won’t know why it’s happening but it will happen. It’s just a matter of desiring it to be so. See the universe works in mysterious ways that you or I can’t explain. If you feel you can explain them all figure out how we can travel billions of light years away and come back to tell about it. In this case, that ability is a mystery. But the universe is devised to provide us with what we need. So if there’s something you feel you really need, ask of it and then go out and seek it. Because if you ask but don’t seek, the chances are fewer that they will come. From personal experience there have been things in my life that have come in without me seeking, rare, but they did. It’s as if they came into my life when I was least expecting them but when they were needed the most. It’s like that in your life too and until you can believe it, there’s littler of a chance that it will be so. Belief is a big part of all this game. It’s like a test we’ve become subject to upon entering this world. Our ability to believe in anything and everything, because until it’s happened to us, it may seem impossible. Never regard anything as so. It can happen to you. It’s all a matter of keeping your beliefs strong and contributing towards something that will help your beliefs and wishes become even stronger. It’s not the end. Don’t give up. Just because something doesn’t work the first time. Keep trying over and over again until your reality becomes one. I’m cheering you on. Go get um. Get the things you need and make this world a better place in the meantime. We all know that if you and I make it so, it to can be.

Tags: leader type, life, new computer, I, leader, good chance

Be nice to a geek

Brandon Barclay — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:21:41 +0000

There was a saying once read to me by my mom. It went like this. Be nice to a geek, because some day you might end up working for one…. Ever wonder if this is or will be true. Perhaps it’s already happened and is happening.

Tags: wonder, geek, day, mom

Do you ever wonder should i just give up? Never….Ever….Alway Keep Going!

Brandon Barclay — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 02:19:05 +0000

When life has you by the tail and you feel like you should quit. Don’t even think about it. Think about keeping on keeping on. Always move forward, your development on your roads to riches might come as a shock. As those who have created true wealth, have done over a period of hard work and determination. As you must try for gain in your life, you must appreciate that those who are where you want to be have done their responsibilities to get where they are today. Remember you are only as important as those who you associate with. Be responsible, be honest and explain your reason for wanting to be on top. If the magic of the secret of life was staring you in the face, would you take responsibility and get the job done. Or would you stand back as your competitor takes another one. Become active. Staying active your life will bring you much benefit. Think back to when you were a kid. If that’s not a frightful experience for you. You probably remember good times, thinking you were on top of the world. Remember the little ninja that can concur the world. Bring that back to life and remember that just because you hear no, does not mean that people wont say yes, to the amazing things which you have to offer. It’s a great gift to receive the secrets which you posses. The ability which allows you to pass information which makes you valuable in life. As that information is shared and you feel really good about what you do. People will see value in what you can accomplish.

Do you have a product to promote? What about a service? If you need a concept or idea, just look around. What are people spending most of their days doing. If you are a young person, you are probably sitting and studying, perhaps taking the summer easy. If you are an adult, there’s a really good chance you are working. A good thing to remember, always make sure you are doing something that leaves this world a better place. It doesn’t matter what it is? or does it! Think about everything you are doing. What is the purpose of it? For what reason is all of what is happening to you, coming upon you. Everything happens for a reason. Every person, every idea. It’s all a reality and nothing doesn’t happen for a reason. There is a purpose behind all of what we are doing. All of what is happening and all that you can become a part of.

Tags: world, frightful experience, little ninja, top, roads to riches, DON

Ever wonder why you are being.

Brandon Barclay — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 06:57:55 +0000

So much to write and don’t know what to say. Ever felt like your heart was breaking. Well…….. ok. it does happen.

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The rich and the famous

Brandon Barclay — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 20:19:21 +0000

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be rich and famous. If you are already rich or are famous, you probably wonder what it would be like to be more so….. In our lives i think we have to ask ourselves, what’s really important in all of this. The most important thing being, remembering that there are many things which are important, beyond that which we are already doing. When your life passes you by will you be ready for that which is to come based on that which you’ve missed? Who knows.

Tags: thing, life, being, many things

In the middle of the day, in the middle of an idea.

Brandon Barclay — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 20:59:23 +0000

What my idea is for today? I’m going to type for the next half hour unless interupted. What i will type about I’m unsure of, all I know is that I’m going to type simply for the sake of writing a lot of information. What it will mean i’m unsure of. All i know is that I’ve slacked on my blog because i’ve been building one of the most revolutionary back office systems for the multi level marketing industry. Software and web application developement can take a long time. Being creative in this process can take even longer. It’s amazing to me how this process goes. When you just step out of the box for a moment and think to yourself what amazing new ideas can i create. Because without a new idea how are you supposed to function in a world where everyone thinks a like. Well not everyone, but for the most part when you think about our education system in it’s fullest form. It teaches us to think like the guy next to us, reports back how we compared to everyone else in the class that was supposed to think in this one direction and then rewards us for it. Does it really matter then if we inivate. Of course it does. Reason being in my opinion is that without inovation people are put into their elementary stage and aren’t taken out of that realm of average thinking they’ve been used to. When you are able to create this arena for anyone. Then at this point you will be able to build something bigger than ever before because people will want to venture out, but never alone. Ask yourself , do you think there are more followers, or leaders in our world. Do you think the follower has created anything new, thought of something unique, took a risk in bringing it into the market. Probably not. They may have tried to expand on someone elses market only to find out that the road dead ends when the visionary stops thinking and the comes when all screeches to a holt. Again like i said this is a rant about anything, it’s a 30 minute typing excercise devised to take my mind out of a slump where it feels like it has nothing to write. Which is not the case at all. In fact sometimes it’s like hunting in a way. You sit and wait, and wait and wait and if you like all the rest don’t give up you will be given something because you simply believed it to be possible when nobody else did. You won’t know why it came to you, you won’t know where it came from either. The only thing that you will know is that you have it now where as nobody else does. They can’t jump into your head and pull out of you that which you own. The ability to create and have ideas that are worth more to you than anything else imaginable in relation to money. The one thing you have to be able to do is execute that plan and make it work for the rest of the world. Something that won’t work for the rest of the world will be limited in its ability to make money. Think about what everyone in the world needs, provide them some kind of a solution for it and watch the money role in. That is to say that you’ve protected your idea and nobody steals it before it’s fully your idea. It’s true, think about how money drives a person into a hole that they can never get out of. It happens with our debt that we owe a bank. We become desperate at times and do desperate things to make an extra buck to get those things which probably never made us happy when we got them. At the time we got them they probably seemed like something that was going to increase our happiness at the time. Though in the end, when everything is gone, what do we really have. What do we really need? Probably love. Sounds like a famous band song but without it what does a person have. You have to give to get. Well if the other person feels no passion behind that which you are giving what does it really matter? A lot of questions are asked on the road to wealth, a lot is seen and on this road you never know who is going to help you get to where you want to be as long as you can see yourself there. Who are those people that will help you. It’s the secret path and it’s like they are lined up. But when they will come you are unsure. It’s going to be a windy road one which if you forget about thanking the fact that you were able to ride it, you may never have gone down it. As my debt gets smaller and smaller, i think to myself the importance of life and why we are here. Money is becoming less of a concern, yes. But staying true to your word and realizing that when we leave here, all is not lost. There is more. The more we create here and the better we do though, the more that will come to us in the afterlife as all that knowledge which we leave will eventually be returned to us, in some way or form. Some people say that all the knowledge you learn here you will take with you when you die. Then that would mean that all the people in heaven which we can share it with are relying on us to bring knew information with us. What would be the point of taking new knowledge with us if we could see, learn and gather knowledge from everyone we could see from heaven. There would be no reason to know anything at all. The point here is that what we learn we share but if what we know is nothing unique and better for the world and the after world than what we’ve done is no good. Well not true. What about those that have kids and their kids do great things then we have left something better. It’s amazing to me how much your mind will think of when you just keep typing and typing and typing and typing. It’s like we have an endless amount of things to say. whether or not those things make any sense or have any value is another story. It seems to me when I started this project i was struggling writing anything worth reading. Now that i’ve stopped writing and abandonded the commitment i made to write this blog, i’m back at square one with my writing skills. As my writting skills began to increase, it’s like i’m back where i was 3 months ago. It’s amazing to me how much we can lose if we don’t pay attention to what we have. Have you ever tried to do something you were once good at only to find that you weren’t as good at it as you once were. That’s like me writting this blog. I feel as though there have been some really good posts on here and now i just need the strenght, Universe to keep pressing forward. Perhaps word pressing forward. Punn intended and writing is starting to get tiring. Perhaps if I do excersises like this everyday, it will not be an excersice anymore but a habit. How many days do i need to sit down and write without stopping before my writting is litterate and my words are well spoken. Probably a while. Anyways to talk about money. I’m currently spending what seems like such a small amount on developing a system that is worth a lot more in the long run. As the system progresses and the application becomes better the rewards should become greater. The ways in which we obtain our money are by means of honesty, charity and concern for making our fellow mans life better. Well, ok. In a lot of situations wealth probably hasn’t been obtained by these means. Though, if you think about it. The world still has gone round. If you read in history perhaps there have been practices that have been less then fair and people have accumulated massive amounts of money. The question one must ask themselves, is, was it worth that which i sacrificed within my integrity to gain that which I now have. I’m not sure it’s always the easiest question and by nature man would probably be inclined to say, no, not everything was best practice. Even paying someone .25 cents less when they had been promised more, might leave one thinking when their time comes, could i have done by my people better. Only the one thing they never realize is that nobody really ever ownes anybody. Really, if you think about it. Even the worst criminal in the world could escape by taking his own life. Probably even accomplish this in most situations. Thus the author of our own fate is us. We can live out life the way we choose and make the most of it based on our decisions. Life can be difficult as can making money. The idea here is that our ideas are above and beyond that which is required of us. We can only accept that which we have allowed ourselves to accept. That made no sense to me when i wrote it out and read it. But for some reason when i was thinking it, it did. That happens sometimes. Things come to us and we don’t know why, they don’t make sense, but one day when I look back on this to think, what in the heck was I thinking. It just might at that point make sense. To some out there it might mean a completely different thing. Just as two different people have two different ideas about money. One might think that it’s going to make their life that much better and one might have all they want and wonder why life isn’t. It’s a matter of your idea of perspective and what you ask for and if you are ready to receive it.

Tags: world, marketing industry, something, idea, elementary stage, multi level marketing

Imagine if you knew everything…..

Brandon Barclay — Sun, 30 May 2010 07:23:01 +0000

Wouldn’t it be scary… Lol. Really I’m not writing about that. So here’s the real deal. I, am going to use the work I. Not because I want to talk or brag. But it is my blog and I did build it so I guess I can talk about I.

Here it goes. It could be said that I know a little about tech. But what is the importance of all this. Computers, Business, Merchant Processing, banking, psychology, health and wellness, real estate, auctioning, just to mention a few areas that I’m fairly well versed in. What some people may not know about me. I have a B.S. in psychology, almost a minor in Business, a very deep knowledge of the acquiring merchant processing business, a license in two states in esthetics, i’ve been through real estate school, auctioneering school and some would say that my knowledge of computers, websites and tech is vast.

But what good is it to be a jack of all traits if you haven’t yet figured out how to turn that into money. Well having a large pool of knowledge does carry a little weight. That is if you don’t go throwing it around in everyones face, ahh, look at me, look at me. Right, well, maybe. It’s good that people know what you are good at, without letting them know you’re good at it. Does this make sense. We must remember to be humble in our lives because that’s really what a lot of this is probably about. When it’s all said and done, we all depart. In the end, of 731 days or in the end of our lives. Doesn’t matter, we are stuck until we are freed. Then once this happens we are able to move on into a place we’ve probably setup for ourselves while here on earth. It’s probably gods way to give his children what they need. In order to find out what that is he probably needs to try us first. That’s why we are here.

Learn as much as we can so when we die there is something for everyone. Until that happens we are unsure but have been given a little insight. Again I haven’t blogged for a while. I’m just trying to get through this writters block. I never understood it before but it’s the same thing that happens when developing websites. You build and build and build and pretty soon you’re unsure what you want to build next because you’ve been building for so long in one direction, inspiration can be difficult to find. Though if you ask the universe for that inspiration and use your imagination, many things will come to you. There will be lots of answers, sometimes so many you won’t know what to do. The important thing is that even if you don’t know what to do, still do something. It’s important, very much so. It’s like you’ve been given a wishing well all you have to do is make a wish. Though some people have been given this well and don’t believe it actually works because when they look down it, and look back up things haven’t changed for them right away so they stop wishing.
This blog is that well. There are lots of things i would wish for, that I won’t ask this well because well, this well is available for everyone and i can’t necessarily poor my heart out in the open just like that. It’s a little more complicated than asking for 2 more mac computers, a ferrari a million dollars a house, a wife, kids and a dog. Well i have the dog now and one mac computer so i guess there are a few things I’ve just exposed to the world that otherwise hadn’t been. Now that it’s out there it makes me wonder how far along some of this stuff is. Because i asked for help getting out of debt. That is coming very fast, faster than i imagined it happening. Then i asked for a laptop, it came at a perfect time, then i talked about having a mac and how great it felt in my hands. And here i sit typing on a Mac that i didn’t even have to pay for. It goes to show that this world is not all about money. Therefore it makes you wonder if it’s all about anything and not about everything. Let me explain. If it was just about one thing than that is all that would be important. All we would have to do is go through life thinking about that one thing. How simple right? Well because we can’t go through life thinking about just one thing we have to think about multiple things. Which even at this point we still can’t think about everything. Perhaps then at this point we can at least think about everything that we don’t know as just that. Everything we don’t know. Keeping this in the conscious mind, we then allow our mind to think, wow, this is about everything even all that which i can’t explain. Then we can start to realize that in this universe there are still many things we can’t explain. If we understand this aspect of life than at this point it’s imparitive to remember that life is about the many and not the few. All those involved and all that is involved must be considered as a whole. For any part of this missing whole would not make the grand scheme. In the end when we find out the purpose, i think it will be so simplistic we will laugh and think that all this worry and fuss was to keep us occupied while god decides what our place is in heaven, if that’s what you call it. Think about this for just a moment in that god wants to try us to see where we fit in. He created us unsure of how we would take advantage of his gift which he gave to all us. In respect for returning to creator we must know that all good things must come, if the good thing that brought us in, in most cases, leaves before us. If the world were backwards and those brought in left before the brought in was taken out. Then the backwardsness of this would make it so we would never know what great things were done for us to be here.Even if all this doesn’t make sense, it doesn’t matter. Because the idea is simply that i’m working again. Typing and writing even if it makes no point in the grand scheme which we’ve discussed. If you can sit down and write for several minutes a day, and just type and type and type. Then this could only help you to become a better person because you are utilizing a gift which was given to you. It’s important i think to remember that we are here and it’s unusual. Whatever in the heck it means, clear, but yet unclear. I could just stop and wonder forever. Death is right around the corner for all of us if you think about it. because like the ones before us. Time flew for them like it will for us and before we know it, we won’t any more. Until that point all we can do is try and setup what needs be for the ones after us that they to might have where we didn’t. Because as we accept our temperary place here we better accept that what we have been given is the presents, which are presents, of those around us given to us by something, or someone more powerful. What great power it must be to create so many bonded connections between creators that walk, talk and roam the earth trying to grasp a meaning of what it is this is all about. What is it all about. Pretty cool if you ask me. For now while I’m here i’m going to make the most of what i can. Until the end, i’m going to live it up and make what the universe will allow. Hope for peace and love for all and again, thank you for this oppurtunity to be given the freedoms which we enjoy and to make life better for those that come after me. After you and after me that is how the world will continue to be.

Tags: I. Here, thing, I. Not, writters block, real deal, B.S

It’s not that it’s a Ferrari

Brandon Barclay — Fri, 28 May 2010 04:27:15 +0000

It’s more than that. It stands for something, of which I will one day explain to you the meaning and why it’s important to me. Really, it goes back a long ways. Something I feel from a long time ago. A picture that has stuck in my mind for some time now. One day it will all make sense. When i reach forward and start it, I will know.

Tags: picture, something, long time, time, day

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